Gameplan # 2: Confuse em

Now it’s obvious that every time we meet someone our mind try to analyze and build an image of the person. The image is purely based on firsthand experience or say like they say the” First Impression matters” and yes it does. But the fact is, the first impression technique is not all that great way to judge people though it’s like standard thing we all do.

So let’s just play with what’s been nice and standard so far,shall we ? Now the pre-assumed image is based on the body language we give out during the first meeting. So now we know where is the point of impression: the body language. Something we can control,something we can always manipulate.So what do we do with this ? we Confuse them. Make an effort that the person get confused about your body language in such a way that they really can’t assume anything about you. Now this is easy to do, I remember once being introduced to my friend’s classmate. At the first look she assumed that I one of those soft-spoken guy. Well,it was her unlucky day I guess but the first thing I told her was that her butt is beautiful…LOL..you should have seen the look on her face ! I am not saying we should be like an outcast and speak totally wild things,the point is to confuse them about your character so that they don’t conclude a image for you in the first meeting. That female still remembers our first meeting and we’re good friends now.

Now why this is effective is,once a person creates an image he or she is not bothered about what you are deep inside. But when you confuse them,you create curiosity enough to fuel the next meeting to be great experience.The next meeting,she or he will be so eager to understand you as if you’re case study topic for their final year exams.Give it a try,you will know…

You might also want to see gameplan #1.

Originally posted 2010-02-01 11:18:11. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

i found this interesting site that should help me find some very active people in my region and also in my domian of work.thought i would share the link with all who are looking for something similar.

check it out !

Originally posted 2009-12-24 01:42:13. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Today as I spoke to @arunbasillal & his friends about how your thoughts could take for you a drive,I just took a moment to realize certain things,certain powerful facts that if mastered could change lives & that is ‘the power of our thoughts’. There is this fine line between your sub-conscious & conscious mind,which is one hell of a tricky stuff ! The sub-conscious mind responds to your dreams & faith & your conscious mind reacts on thoughts ! Simple ! if your dream is a power packed career & you driving that sports car,your sub-conscious will flush in thoughts that has such colors & if you really can believe in that thought,you will see the world changing by itself.

It happened to me & that’s why I can say this,I was a person who showed faith & will in others dreams than my own & am I happy that those came true. But I never truly believed in mine, until recent encounters.Years back,I used to dream about watching hoardings of my company,I had a dream about how I can inspire people,I had this dream about this logo which I created in my mind ! But for a fact I never believed in them or took it to make any logical sense ! But a year back,I put these logics to a rest & thought of giving it all a try and well everything I had dreamt about…..its right there in real…

And when today @arunbasillal told me how I inspired him between our conversation I just felt “Happy” that,even with the very little faith I have I could get what I wanted ! This is just the beginning though but its really a nice feeling to know that you’r getting closer to that dream of yours !

Starting a self-sustainable  social organisation #NGO was one of the things I wanted to do from the days I remember ! And this month ‘Insha-Allah’ even that dream is coming true with Colors of Future launch.

I also wanted to be ‘a Superman’ and save the world, but then I think I am nothing less now ! LOL ! For me, the measure of my success is not how I can change my Life but its simply how I can the change lives of the people around me ! And I am happy I am quite the ‘Superman’ I wanted to be!

We have only one lives fellas,don’t waste it with doubts & fears ! What you are now are simply reflections of your past thoughts ! you need to understand that & play with it. What you will be tomorrow are simply what you ‘think‘ you will be tomorrow. Its a tricky thing,these thoughts ! Like they say,with great power comes great responsibility ! Your thoughts has that great power to alter the course of your Life,you need to master it & use it to become what you want.

Originally posted 2009-12-23 23:37:51. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

The Gateway Hotel(a.k.a Hotel Taj) finally offers something that’s quite impressive with its quality & pricing.It’s like they have strike the right balance with this new “Deli” outlet.Impressive yet simple interiors and seating with a classy ambience the brand can offer,the place is worth all the drools.

I visited the place with my friend and was surprised to see the billing,compared to the things we ordered.Though the pastries are like puny in size,the food they serve has its standards.If you want to hangout with friends,there are of course better options in town. But if you want to take out your client/associate for a meeting,something official and less casual;Deli is the place to be.

Originally posted 2010-04-06 20:17:42. Republished by Blog Post Promoter