As I Look Back….

Filed under About me, Friends by on October 19, 2010 at 7:41 pm {7 comments}

As I look back,2009 wasn’t all that a great year for certain reasons but it was simply a Life Altering year for a lot more reasons. “Pappu Pass Ho Gaya” would be the first thing that I would say when it comes to my academic stats,finally with lot of pain and grief I am now a Bachelor of Electrical Engineering(That’s what my certificate which is yet to come is supposed to say).So the year 2009 has made me a ‘Bachelor’(I am, yes I am…lol) who is yet to ‘Master’ his world.

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As I look back, the first thing that comes to my mind is the New Year celebrations 2009;I celebrating thebeginning of yet another year and of course “My Birthday”(Yup,lucky brat I am…???) with my partners in crime, all of them in fact. Our celebrations started at Ramada & Loungevity on December 31’st and went on four days which was Archana’s Birthday too(Yes, she’s a Capricorn too) and how can I forget the days ahead, cos technically we all were broke badly after that LOL.(so technically we were the first to be hit by Recession  ..LOL). And a lot has changed since then, a lot ….

IMG_0149 copyYes Indiavision had already loosen its grips making me and Asif technically ‘Jobless’(We were program producers cum VJ there ya see). So unlike all other men who would probably look for another job, we were quite geniuses-We did nothing. Asif had decided his destiny, he was just waiting for the path to show up and yes the year 2009 did show him one and now he has taken the first step towards his destiny.DSC02375

And the movie “Ritu” just gave him enough push for everyone to see the “Actor” in him or in his own words to see the “Kutty Tiger” in him(means small Tiger….Really ! he is …LOL).The picture put up was taken when we went wish Asif “All the success” as he was leaving for the shoot of ‘Ritu’.

Archana was already expecting a call for the movie, “Patanathil Bootham” which she apparently did not take up and she was the Chairperson of our club-“the Jobless club”(LOL..i just made up that now). But then her Life too took a U-turn when Lal Sir, asked her to play Kunjumallu of Neelathamara. So there goes our chairperson (LOL).

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I am going to miss them for certain but I am very happy that they have been bestowed with what they deserve. As for me, my transition from Program Producer of Yes Indiavision to Director (Operations) of my own startup firm took its course of time and my journey so far been Fun & troublesome.

OgAAABBprdZxsujsAbYtr5Nr6sbVurQQcUkAo9nQOW-_FZOXl3gWD7mzZPWf8xJQubi-dO0XI0FYR2egDM3aVa0OTboAm1T1UCfRppkQ_BhPSldzueSxSCEbnSksAs I look back,2009 has placed a whole new world has been placed in my front and told me ‘Beta ! Yeh hai Duniya !’ and I ask back ‘Yeh Beta Kaun Hai’(Ah ! OK …..Bad joke, I always try you see).a lot has changed around Shruti(@shrutikutu) has now migrated to Trivandrum, Jyoti now in UK,Anup now thinking of quitting smoking & Alcohol(I forgot the last time he took this decision..LOL),Shweta now doing her final Semester, Ajeesh still not got laid in UK(someone find him a Chic .Please!),Rakesh(stuck somewhere),Mathew at Mumbai,Anitha decided to reduce her weight by 4 Kgs(I bet she still would be like a 100 Kgs..LOL) recession, Re.1 for Twitter SMS’s in Airtel(LOL..Now that was a good one ).Something’s still unchanged though Sithara(@SitharaP),Abilash(@abbbii ),Sunil; Happy everyone still here for me ! Thanks Guys!

As I look back,I learned that Life ahead is more back…….

Originally posted 2009-12-14 20:48:11. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

#2 Winning Hearts of the Opposite Sex for Dummies

Filed under Life, Recommended by on October 15, 2010 at 3:13 pm {4 comments}

Gameplan # 2: Confuse em

Now it’s obvious that every time we meet someone our mind try to analyze and build an image of the person. The image is purely based on firsthand experience or say like they say the” First Impression matters” and yes it does. But the fact is, the first impression technique is not all that great way to judge people though it’s like standard thing we all do.

So let’s just play with what’s been nice and standard so far,shall we ? Now the pre-assumed image is based on the body language we give out during the first meeting. So now we know where is the point of impression: the body language. Something we can control,something we can always manipulate.So what do we do with this ? we Confuse them. Make an effort that the person get confused about your body language in such a way that they really can’t assume anything about you. Now this is easy to do, I remember once being introduced to my friend’s classmate. At the first look she assumed that I one of those soft-spoken guy. Well,it was her unlucky day I guess but the first thing I told her was that her butt is beautiful…LOL..you should have seen the look on her face ! I am not saying we should be like an outcast and speak totally wild things,the point is to confuse them about your character so that they don’t conclude a image for you in the first meeting. That female still remembers our first meeting and we’re good friends now.

Now why this is effective is,once a person creates an image he or she is not bothered about what you are deep inside. But when you confuse them,you create curiosity enough to fuel the next meeting to be great experience.The next meeting,she or he will be so eager to understand you as if you’re case study topic for their final year exams.Give it a try,you will know…

You might also want to see gameplan #1.

Originally posted 2010-02-01 11:18:11. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Winning Hearts of the Opposite Sex for Dummies

Filed under Life by on August 10, 2010 at 6:48 pm {10 comments}

Gameplan # 1 : Be yourself

Well this is like the most important rule in this business, or say the fundamental rule which makes the other rules/game plan work. Being yourself is very important no matter whatever the situations demands, however you try to act like something you are not even though it might look attractive, it will never sustain. It’s like judging between what’s right and what’s easy?

I have blown up few introductions trying to make an impression. The problem when such a thing goes in our head is that we tend to do things which are not really us. And that appears very obvious towards the end of the very daring act. We tend to assume a lot and improvise which rarely gets the job done.Once my friend introduced to this cool girl he knew, now I was told that she was cool which made me assume a lot about her way of thinking that trying to impress her I got so outspoken that she took me wrong enough to tell my friend that “ Is he normal ? “; Totally blown trying to act out of my pre-assumptions.

Like my Friend once said “There is no shortcut to success”, that very much apply when you’re building relationships. Every time we meet someone or we socialize try to maintain a Level of agility or say forget the “trying to impress” feeling that you might come across. People easily take track of such moves and labels you to be not very impressive in the very first shot. So let’s go Easy n slow, Shall we?

So remember this primary Rule “Being Yourself” !

More Game Plans to come and looking forward to some really personal feedbacks too.I could use stories for my next post.

Originally posted 2010-01-30 01:02:40. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Just 4 Laughs:Stages Of Life

Filed under fun by on August 8, 2010 at 4:26 pm {no comments}

Just found this interesting illustration ! Funny,yet it has its moments. I am sure you will find it the same….LOL

Originally posted 2010-01-01 23:30:05. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

#6 Winning Hearts of the Opposite Sex for #Dummies : Pause & Wait

Filed under Life by on July 10, 2010 at 11:07 am {3 comments}

Chapter 6 : Pause & Wait

Now this is the time where we actually stop and look back on how far he/she is on to us or how they feel about us. It’s like those mini self check on what we been doing so far,like they say “Let’s see your Progress Report !! ” LOL ! Anyway,so so far we been trying to create an image or say manipulating their thoughts and so it is important that we have a cross check on how much it has worked since the road ahead is all about being simple and straight,very less gimmicks to impress.

Now,how do we do it ? Simple ! Just sit back and see the kind of bond you have created,just measure the kind of attachment you created. If you come the way as told,by now he/she must be close enough for the road ahead. Now,say to measure it the most simplest way would be to pick up a fight in such way that the climax ends up in a way where the reason for the fight was the fact that we care about them. Try to make the reason as silly as possible because small and silly things has the biggest impact out there.

What I usually do is pick up a fight for not calling or may be conversational fight,the bottom line we have to act like a 10 year old boy who would cry about his/her toy having a scratch on it. We are just making it look like we’ve become a kid which symbolizes innocence & happiness. Now if they react positively and if we are in right track they will take the initiative in fixing/finishing the fight with a special treat or something like that.

So that’s how we Pause & Wait,in case it did not turn out well do go back to where we started till it becomes well,If you are serious about making this relationship thing work i.e.

All chapters are simply just directions or like a Map to the Hearts of our loved ones but to make it work it requires your intuition as well. Just improvise folks,its all about a connecting to the Hearts which is universal language and requires nothing but little Love shaken & stirred in right proportions to make you that perfect Cocktail. Enjoy while it lasts…

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Originally posted 2010-03-02 22:30:53. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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