Chapter #4 :Surprise em
Now we all love surprises and while building a #relationship building up the excitement or momentum really counts. Now surprises can be of many forms,I am not taking about buying a gift here exactly. But the topic is here Surprise em about You. Tricky Ah ? Well yes,it should be. Like I have mentioned in the previous posts maintaining a curiosity factor is very important. Never let them think they know everything about you. The logic is simple,we will be interested only to know the unknown. what is obvious & direct doesn’t appeal to us or anyone. So the surprise I am talking about is to make them think something good or bad about you all of a sudden. The point is just to play with their curiosity.
This is an area where your talents can be useful,projection of your talents that is. Well I can site this with an example,in my college days I has met this girl whom I somehow wanted to be acquainted with. And my image in college those days among that batch of students was that I was the ultimate level of attitude. And this image I had did help me to get her. It was quite simple,she had already started seeing me as a big time attitude guy. Only thing I had to do was Surprise her on how simple & down to earth person I am,whatever be the actual facts(LOL). And yes it did work for me ! Well all what I am saying is,give them a piece of you that they would have never seen or even thought about in you.
That will ensure that the curiosity just heightens to a level that,the opposite person is now in a mindset to know more about you.Or otherwise you ought to be lucky enough to be on the right place at the right time. So if you’re not all that confident about how luck is going to be with you,go on and Surprise em.
Originally posted 2010-02-17 01:38:46. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Life gives us lot of options when it comes to choosing the direction ahead. As a teenager you are told by your parents that work hard and get a good job. No one ever asks you to follow your Dream and become what we probably want to be. And may be for this reason we never think of anything more than a job with a 5 figure pay slip and all that corporate mumbo-jumbo. But then in between all this, there are people who start thinking of something of their own. Due to circumstances they just keep it buried somewhere inside their mind! But what’s the use of saying that we’re independent and a social being if we are to change according to our circumstances. Very few tread the path of becoming an entrepreneur. For me it happened by itself because I knew what I am capable of and didn’t want to waste my resources working for someone else. But one thing I learned and wish to share to everyone is that you will never get to your dream until you want it like anything. It’s like our natural reflexes; say if we are drowning in water we would fight for air till the very end. May be this is where most of them go wrong. Being an entrepreneur should never be your choice, it should be your compassion and your only walk in Life. Now the question is do you have that compassion in you. If the underneath mentioned points strike you somewhere I guess we would have our answer for that.
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