Slow and Steady wins no race these days !

Filed under Life by on December 27, 2011 at 7:37 am {11 comments}

We all have heard of the wise saying “Slow and steady wins the race“. The proverb itself sounds a distant reality now,as now these rules don’t apply anywhere. Life these days can be said in three simple terms “Fast,Good and Cheap“.Be that any walks of Life:career,relationships or anything. The above said words hold very well. I would say the syllabus has changed now(LOL…love this phrase..happened every  time during my curricular age). The story of the Tortoise defeated the rabbit won’t be anymore applicable,sort of …

We all heard the story,of how Tortoise won over the Rabbit with his slow & consistent effort but those day’s are now goners for sure.Now to win anything in Life we ought to be fast,good & cheap(economical is what i mean here). Just putting it in general sense. An organisation will hire you only if you’re Fast in what you’re doing,Good at it and you come at a special price tag. You design a product,the market will accept it only if you get things done quickly before others and that your product should be cheap.So being steady and slow in what you’re doing in going to only ensure that you have competitors doing what you do much faster and better than you. I am not against finding excellence in what you do,but the time frame to obtain excellence should be reduced is what I push here.Don’t give space for others to copy what you do,let them follow you but don’t let them copy.

You got to be “Fast,Good and Cheap”….

Originally posted 2010-01-10 19:21:25. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Finding Happiness

Filed under Life by on December 6, 2011 at 6:01 am {9 comments}

Everyone always wanted to know what the secret  to Happiness is and we all have our own definitions to it.Some say its money ,some say its success,some say its achievements,some say its love and so on goes the endless definitions.But trust me,there is no real secret here.It’s all in the basics,Happiness is a simply an emotion of content and inner calmness. It’s all in the mind i tell ya mates and if you don’t believe me you can take instances from your own life to prove it.

Anyway i ain’t here to prove something,just wanted to share what i think is the secret,as i said its simply in the basics.This pyramid here shows the basic chart or say the basics that i have been mentioning here.All these are simple yet very string factors that decides our life and the way it goes.

It’s all look so simple from here but the fact is if one of the layers get disturbed everything changes. Our mind tends to think positive & creatively only when the bottom layers are achieved. i wouldn’t want to say which of the layer is most important.Lets just say all are complimentary in way or other.

The bottom line is,get the basics done & rest will happen by itself. God Bless !

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Originally posted 2009-12-28 10:58:31. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

Loose Control = Happy : When was the last time you were Happy ?

Filed under Life by on October 10, 2011 at 9:27 pm {no comments}

Now,often is Life we come to a situation where we think on the big question -” Are we doing the right thing ? ” OR ” Are we making a wrong/bad decision ? “. Now think this,Who decides whats right or wrong ? who makes the call here ? I am sure this is one question we won’t have one correct answer but instead hundreds of opinions. Often in Life we are bound by a set of rule book which we ourselves don’t have a reasoning. Rules in my opinion are just a way of holding back on your happiness or may be a way of finding happiness. It’s pretty an irony how rules can make you a slave of your own world and also how it can set you free at times.

Have you noticed that in Life ,the only thing that consistently can get you excited is taking a break or breaking one of those rules or just loosing your control.Now,I really have no logical explanation to support all this but loosing control mostly feels close to heaven and I am sure its all the same for us. We tie up ourselves with rules and commitments which sometimes pose no logical reasoning to be there like that.

Often we create a cocoon of rules,I have had my share in having one golden rule and that is to have none…LOL..well Rules sucks mate. Trust me on that.There is no right and wrong or bad and good,its all just made up fuss of the social creature inside us. Why to have rules,when they can’t keep you happy,rules they say are meant to keep things intact and in a proper system !! Ahh ! Screw it…One life,Live it Large folks !

Originally posted 2010-03-02 01:59:35. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

an Idiots guide to Mastery of Happiness

Filed under Life by on May 30, 2011 at 2:10 am {2 comments}

I once read that Happiness is the mastery of energy around us,though it made sense to me I never understood the real meaning of it. It said that Happiness is a science which abides basics laws of energy and the most important one was the “Laws of Attraction”,its about how the energy around us brings us what we want in Life.

I am no compromise person and it has helped me as much as it has created trouble for me,but bottom line is I don’t want to compromise.I have had the habit of believing blindly that whatever I need, my God will get it for me and he always has. And just like this I am very adamant that I would never compromise on anything in m Life and I really was surprised to find that i never had to,as if the universe would work to get me what I wanted. I have personally had a small taste of this energy and now I am trying to extend it to my Life Fully.I have seen miracles happend for people around me. The Life of my friend and now a successful actor Asif Ali is somewhat in similar lines,he simply was mad & crazy and trusted in his dreams like anything.

This video here can speak more than what I just said.

Originally posted 2010-01-28 14:04:28. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

#4 Winning Hearts of the Opposite Sex for #Dummies : Surprise em

Filed under Life by on March 6, 2011 at 12:41 pm {one comment}

Chapter #4 :Surprise em

Now we all love surprises and while building a #relationship building up the excitement or momentum really counts. Now surprises can be of many forms,I am not taking about buying a gift here exactly. But the topic is here Surprise em about You. Tricky Ah ? Well yes,it should be. Like I have mentioned in the previous posts maintaining a curiosity factor is very important. Never let them think they know everything about you. The logic is simple,we will be interested only to know the unknown. what is obvious & direct doesn’t appeal to us or anyone. So the surprise I am talking about is to make them think something good or bad about you all of a sudden. The point is just to play with their curiosity.

This is an area where your talents can be useful,projection of your talents that is. Well I can site this with an example,in my college days I has met this girl whom I somehow wanted to be acquainted with. And my image in college those days among that batch of students was that I was the ultimate level of attitude. And this image I had did help me to get her. It was quite simple,she had already started seeing me as a big time attitude guy. Only thing I had to do was Surprise her on how simple & down to earth person I am,whatever be the actual facts(LOL). And yes it did work for me ! Well all what I am saying is,give them a piece of you that they would have never seen or even thought about in you.

That will ensure that the curiosity just heightens to a level that,the opposite person is now in a mindset to know more about you.Or otherwise you ought to be lucky enough to be on the right place at the right time. So if you’re not all that confident about how luck is going to be with you,go on and Surprise em.

Originally posted 2010-02-17 01:38:46. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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