Gameplan # 2: Be a good Listener

Well everyone loves to be with people who are good listeners and trust me its a easy way of building up a relation.The best way to get into a person’s mind is by making him/her feel that you love to hear what they say.Now this always works,but the important thing is that you got to make them speak more and that is one thing you got to figure out yourself. Its simple though,everyone has some topic which makes them vulnerable,a topic they will talk all day about. Mostly it’s about his personal interest though,so just find that vulnerable point.This way can also help you in more than just building a connection,in fact these are used in business closings as well. When the  discussions and meetings span only for limited time building the right kind of rapport counts,the same thing that we trying to do i.e being a Great Listener.

Whenever I meet someone,be that of same or opposite sex I make a lot of effect to get them to speak,its not easy but once you thru it. Its only a natural tendency to boost too much trying to make an impression but trust me,it spoils the sport. In recent time’s I met this very good looking female at an event was  I was hosting,luckily or unluckily we found some time together and during the long 2 hour conversation we had,though I was tempted to open my big mouth I made an effort to listen to her. And yes,my temperament paid the dividends ! I took her for movie that night and now we are great friends.

The most simple and easy way folks,never miss this thump rule ” Be a good listener “. It works..everytime..all time !

You would also want to see gameplan #1 & gameplan #2 for more of these.

Originally posted 2010-02-09 00:48:40. Republished by Blog Post Promoter