This usage was something that i thought was applicable to a corporate culture, where you would probably only get acquainted cos there is some level of a “common” play field. A manager would not be hanging out with lower grade staff.( Ok ! Unless we are talking about a hot chic) But then the sentence makes sense more than just that even in the simplest relationships we keep in our lives from our childhood. I just noticed that i only made friends with kids whom i thought were intellectually, mentally, physically equal or stronger than me. A trait i found scary was merely a human trait which cannot be altered at any cost.
Though i never wanted to believe that in our personal relationships there was never a thing called “levelled plane” , it’s a fact of life that human mind conceives every action with a rational treason. The only true & un corrupted feeling/action if ever was done will be an action of fate or hope in a force like God.
In most cases there is a “level plane” of our relationships we maintain secretly. Do you wish to test that? It’s more than easy, just look around! That close friend of yours who earns double your annual income is no way like you were once, that close friend who is famous/powerful that you are, is no way giving you priority like before. Now, in Life we say “that happens” ,”Change is the only constant”…shit like that ! Trust me, it’s just us ! Nothing else !
An example of that might be how friends behave differently when they are drunk or on weed, when they lose their inhibitions of material success…that’s when there is a “level plane” ! Well, i din’t mean to say friendship is live only when you are intoxicated but the point is,its a bloody “Mind game”. Only few people in lives have mastered to control that human trait & if you have come across anyone who have had that unique gift….. please…give me their contact number ! LOL !
Originally posted 2011-05-18 01:22:26. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
You got be really lucky to meet a person of such energy and divinity that can even arise your spirits and then you got be really honored to have someone so as a friend. Luckily or unluckily I had that honor a couple of years back when my classmate and friend Neil Gonsalves introduced her to me. She was unlike the females I have met, was trying to be independent, had dreams and had the will to give it a try, which is something not everyone has. And the very reason we met too was to give a try to her long lived dream of becoming a RJ (have you heard her voice..LOL !). Anyway I had admired her for the courage she took in her decisions to have chosen to study in Ramapuram away from her sweet parents, away from her comforts. And then coming to Ernakulam every weekend to keep her dreams alive, trusting in God, trusting herself. She was trying to prove something I guess, maybe she has proved it too.
Television. Yes Indiavision was then an upcoming youth channel and I knew she could bring her true self there and so we gave it a try. Thus Archana Kavi,the Love Guru was born through “Bloody Love” ! Strange name na ? Perfect for her instincts though! LOL ! Ok. We were all a team then. We could call ourselves as “”THE THREE A’s”"- Archana Kavi,Asif Ali n Andrine Mendez(Me). It was hell of a team we had.
the one thing I miss is my family.. and my mom made food…
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