Gameplan # 1 : Be yourself
Well this is like the most important rule in this business, or say the fundamental rule which makes the other rules/game plan work. Being yourself is very important no matter whatever the situations demands, however you try to act like something you are not even though it might look attractive, it will never sustain. It’s like judging between what’s right and what’s easy?
I have blown up few introductions trying to make an impression. The problem when such a thing goes in our head is that we tend to do things which are not really us. And that appears very obvious towards the end of the very daring act. We tend to assume a lot and improvise which rarely gets the job done.Once my friend introduced to this cool girl he knew, now I was told that she was cool which made me assume a lot about her way of thinking that trying to impress her I got so outspoken that she took me wrong enough to tell my friend that “ Is he normal ? “; Totally blown trying to act out of my pre-assumptions.
Like my Friend once said “There is no shortcut to success”, that very much apply when you’re building relationships. Every time we meet someone or we socialize try to maintain a Level of agility or say forget the “trying to impress” feeling that you might come across. People easily take track of such moves and labels you to be not very impressive in the very first shot. So let’s go Easy n slow, Shall we?
So remember this primary Rule “Being Yourself” !
More Game Plans to come and looking forward to some really personal feedbacks too.I could use stories for my next post.
Originally posted 2010-01-30 01:02:40. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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