Life is a very mysterious gift that we never know the real value of what is has bestowed on us. And maybe we don’t find it a too big a value worth having a dig on? Our parents never had a clue on what or how we will be as we get older; we ourselves don’t know where we will be some years from now. That my fellas is the biggest gift we all have and trust me it’s worth a dig!i am sure you all would think about that every time you might have seen movies like ‘Curios Cases of Benjamin Button’ or ‘Paa’(Hindi) or any movies that relates to real life problems. But after that ‘some’ time, Life is just an abandon piece of Crap.
In spite of all the ambiguities or uncertainty that surrounds us we love the term and mostly go to any extent to have had the phrase “Guarantee” on everything that we do or would want to do! It’s simply a plugin that is installed in our mind’s software and the moment you un install that believe you me fellas, you will be set free for Life! Our lives are so much deeply into that phrase that we could relate to any spheres of Life; say for instance you guarantee for the job you’re doing, for the course we’re studying, for the investment we’re making and even if we have to get a loan from Bank(LOL…).
The moment we come out this mind-frame you will see what Life really is; what its true purpose is. It’s simply not about following what everyone else do, it’s about believing in yourself in spite of no guarantee. Free the chicken inside you, Free yourself!
Originally posted 2009-12-08 00:05:41. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
Now it’s obvious that every time we meet someone our mind try to analyze and build an image of the person. The image is purely based on firsthand experience or say like they say the” First Impression matters” and yes it does. But the fact is, the first impression technique is not all that great way to judge people though it’s like standard thing we all do.
So let’s just play with what’s been nice and standard so far,shall we ? Now the pre-assumed image is based on the body language we give out during the first meeting. So now we know where is the point of impression: the body language. Something we can control,something we can always manipulate.So what do we do with this ? we Confuse them. Make an effort that the person get confused about your body language in such a way that they really can’t assume anything about you. Now this is easy to do, I remember once being introduced to my friend’s classmate. At the first look she assumed that I one of those soft-spoken guy. Well,it was her unlucky day I guess but the first thing I told her was that her butt is beautiful…LOL..you should have seen the look on her face ! I am not saying we should be like an outcast and speak totally wild things,the point is to confuse them about your character so that they don’t conclude a image for you in the first meeting. That female still remembers our first meeting and we’re good friends now.
Now why this is effective is,once a person creates an image he or she is not bothered about what you are deep inside. But when you confuse them,you create curiosity enough to fuel the next meeting to be great experience.The next meeting,she or he will be so eager to understand you as if you’re case study topic for their final year exams.Give it a try,you will know…
Today as I spoke to @arunbasillal & his friends about how your thoughts could take for you a drive,I just took a moment to realize certain things,certain powerful facts that if mastered could change lives & that is ‘the power of our thoughts’. There is this fine line between your sub-conscious & conscious mind,which is one hell of a tricky stuff ! The sub-conscious mind responds to your dreams & faith & your conscious mind reacts on thoughts ! Simple ! if your dream is a power packed career & you driving that sports car,your sub-conscious will flush in thoughts that has such colors & if you really can believe in that thought,you will see the world changing by itself.
It happened to me & that’s why I can say this,I was a person who showed faith & will in others dreams than my own & am I happy that those came true. But I never truly believed in mine, until recent encounters.Years back,I used to dream about watching hoardings of my company,I had a dream about how I can inspire people,I had this dream about this logo which I created in my mind ! But for a fact I never believed in them or took it to make any logical sense ! But a year back,I put these logics to a rest & thought of giving it all a try and well everything I had dreamt about…..its right there in real…
And when today @arunbasillal told me how I inspired him between our conversation I just felt “Happy” that,even with the very little faith I have I could get what I wanted ! This is just the beginning though but its really a nice feeling to know that you’r getting closer to that dream of yours !
Starting a self-sustainable social organisation #NGO was one of the things I wanted to do from the days I remember ! And this month ‘Insha-Allah’ even that dream is coming true with Colors of Future launch.
I also wanted to be ‘a Superman’ and save the world, but then I think I am nothing less now ! LOL ! For me, the measure of my success is not how I can change my Life but its simply how I can the change lives of the people around me ! And I am happy I am quite the ‘Superman’ I wanted to be!
We have only one lives fellas,don’t waste it with doubts & fears ! What you are now are simply reflections of your past thoughts ! you need to understand that & play with it. What you will be tomorrow are simply what you ‘think‘ you will be tomorrow. Its a tricky thing,these thoughts ! Like they say,with great power comes great responsibility ! Your thoughts has that great power to alter the course of your Life,you need to master it & use it to become what you want.
Life has very strange definitions at various stages. Some times we say Life is entirely in our hands,sometimes we say its all up to fate or luck,sometime we talk about pre-written destiny,blah blah ! But what is truth in actual ? or what is right ? The answer is simple,there is no right or wrong about it. “Life is simply what you think about it”,and there is no right way or wrong way of going through it. But this very feeling is hard to digest,and we all take it an a different way,a state of mind that we call “Excitement” is the one I am talking about. When everything goes well,we’re excited and we seem to control everything but when things go all wrong…. well you know what happens.
The bottom line is if you stay Excited round the clock,you will be in control of your Life and nothing else.Now how do you do that ? Lets just explode this feeling..when does it happen ?..how does it happen ? what all can get us excited ? I am sure the answers are quite simple.. Money..Success…Fame…Results…Sex..
Now are these really required to be Excited ? Excitement is simply a state of mind where you are technically exploded with Happiness ! So how do you stay excited round the clock ? how do you find happiness ? The answer lies within us folks,I am not trying to teach you something here. I am just sharing something which I myself am training my mind to do and that is to stay happy.
“Visualize what you want in Life,be happy for what you have and thank god for it”,would sound like “what an asshole I am to say something just like that ! “,you know what I have read lot of self-help guides(not really read as such but ya to some extend…lol) and the all say this but miss one important thing on HOW ??…. that’s the most important part….
Ok here’s how ….
1)Visualize what you want in Life
2)Make a poster,painting,video or something that resembles your Life(that you want to Live)
3)Decide & believe in what you want.
4)Wake up everyday as if you’re one step closer to that Goal of yours
5)Make an Action Plan to get there.
6)Make your first move and whatever the results be,Stay Happy that you just gave it a shot
7)Whatever happens,don’t loose hope and remember the next point
8)Even if you Loose a Battle,you still got a War to Win
Now if you found this of any use,please do leave your honest feed back and if its the other way round you copy paste the next sentence and post as comments:”What the Fuck have you been smoking lately ?? “
Or else you can also Fart for Happiness here. Happy reading ….
Originally posted 2010-01-23 01:49:05. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
I once read that Happiness is the mastery of energy around us,though it made sense to me I never understood the real meaning of it. It said that Happiness is a science which abides basics laws of energy and the most important one was the “Laws of Attraction”,its about how the energy around us brings us what we want in Life.
I am no compromise person and it has helped me as much as it has created trouble for me,but bottom line is I don’t want to compromise.I have had the habit of believing blindly that whatever I need, my God will get it for me and he always has. And just like this I am very adamant that I would never compromise on anything in m Life and I really was surprised to find that i never had to,as if the universe would work to get me what I wanted. I have personally had a small taste of this energy and now I am trying to extend it to my Life Fully.I have seen miracles happend for people around me. The Life of my friend and now a successful actor Asif Ali is somewhat in similar lines,he simply was mad & crazy and trusted in his dreams like anything.
This video here can speak more than what I just said.
Originally posted 2010-01-28 14:04:28. Republished by Blog Post Promoter
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