Gameplan # 2: Confuse em

Now it’s obvious that every time we meet someone our mind try to analyze and build an image of the person. The image is purely based on firsthand experience or say like they say the” First Impression matters” and yes it does. But the fact is, the first impression technique is not all that great way to judge people though it’s like standard thing we all do.

So let’s just play with what’s been nice and standard so far,shall we ? Now the pre-assumed image is based on the body language we give out during the first meeting. So now we know where is the point of impression: the body language. Something we can control,something we can always manipulate.So what do we do with this ? we Confuse them. Make an effort that the person get confused about your body language in such a way that they really can’t assume anything about you. Now this is easy to do, I remember once being introduced to my friend’s classmate. At the first look she assumed that I one of those soft-spoken guy. Well,it was her unlucky day I guess but the first thing I told her was that her butt is beautiful…LOL..you should have seen the look on her face ! I am not saying we should be like an outcast and speak totally wild things,the point is to confuse them about your character so that they don’t conclude a image for you in the first meeting. That female still remembers our first meeting and we’re good friends now.

Now why this is effective is,once a person creates an image he or she is not bothered about what you are deep inside. But when you confuse them,you create curiosity enough to fuel the next meeting to be great experience.The next meeting,she or he will be so eager to understand you as if you’re case study topic for their final year exams.Give it a try,you will know…

You might also want to see gameplan #1.

Originally posted 2010-02-01 11:18:11. Republished by Blog Post Promoter